2 months ago
Birthday
Alhamdullilah hari ulang tahun saya yang ke-20 telah kembali
kali ni dapat surprise daripada
kawan-kawan recycle 12
saya memang appreciate sangat-sangat
harap lepas ni kalau ada birthday orang lain
kita surprise kan diorang pulak yeh
HOW TO STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
Steps
- 1Make a fool of yourself. One of the biggest things that holds many of us back is our fear of what people think. After all, you don't want people to think you're weird or rude or creepy or obnoxious or annoying, do you? But wait -- think about the most lovable, magnetic people you've come across in your life. Odds are, they weren't the meek, agreeable people who are reliably pleasant to be around. They were the people who were crazy andcharming. People who blurted out silly, maybe inappropriate things, or who made huge, slap-your-forehead mistakes, or who were over the top most of the time, but others forgave them for being less than perfect and in fact, liked them for it. So shatter your concern for what people think of you. You're allowed to be less than perfect, and you may find that people like you more for it, because it makes you a more exciting person to be around. Get laughed at, laugh with 'em. Do something you normally wouldn't do for fear of looking like an idiot. Be that idiot. You'll be fine.
Make a fool of yourself.
- 2Face your fears. There are the big fears, such as heights, spiders, tight spaces, and germs, but there are also hundreds of subtle fears we bow to every day. Like the fear of breaking a bone, or falling down, or getting caught in the rain. What are the precautions you take every day to circumvent "negative" circumstances? And are those circumstances really worth stepping around? Those steps add up! It's good to be proactive, but it's bad to let a significant portion of your life be devoted to averting things that never happen--Little things that could turn into adventures or funny stories if you allow yourself to deal with a little discomfort.
- 3Become comfortable with taking risks. Your comfort zone is comfortable because it's where you know what to expect. Going out on a limb can be scary because you might fail. You might lose something. But you might also gain something, huh? In order to become comfortable with that uncertainty, you'll need to practice the following:
- Non-attachment. When you decide to do something, do it for its own sake, not so that you can get a particular result. If you gamble, gamble with money you're ready and willing to lose; gamble for the fun and exhilaration of gambling. If you win, that's icing on the cake! But if you lose, no big deal. In other words, let go of your attachment to a certain outcome; instead, focus on the joy of doing whatever you're doing. Live in the moment.
- Acceptance. When things don't go your way, and they won't, shrug it off. If you're clinging to your comfort zone, you're hanging on to an idea that the world is supposed to be a safe, predictable place, and that's an illusion. You're setting yourself up for frustration and disappointment. Open your eyes. The world is a dynamic place where things go right and wrong. That's just the way it is!
- You might also want to read How to Be Laid Back.
- You might also want to read How to Be Laid Back.
- Non-attachment. When you decide to do something, do it for its own sake, not so that you can get a particular result. If you gamble, gamble with money you're ready and willing to lose; gamble for the fun and exhilaration of gambling. If you win, that's icing on the cake! But if you lose, no big deal. In other words, let go of your attachment to a certain outcome; instead, focus on the joy of doing whatever you're doing. Live in the moment.
- 4Enjoy the unknown. When is the last time you felt excited about not knowing what was going to happen next? If you're deep in your comfort zone, it's probably been a while. Don't you miss it? Don't you miss the mixture of anticipation and anxiety that makes your heart flutter and stomach turn at the same time? Bring that feeling back into your life.
EditTips
- Find or date someone crazy. When you discover that person who brings out the adventurous side from within you, it will help to encourage your development tremendously. These people can be easy to spot and will be found, for example, five miles away from home after packing up only a camera, tent, and food, to go camping in the woods. Spontaneity is a great contrast to someone like yourself who may not be comfortable or familiar with stepping out of your comfort zone often.
EditWarnings
- Don't confuse stepping out of your comfort zone with being reckless and stupid. There's a difference between being reckless and accepting risks. Reckless people don't accept risks-they don't even think about them. You should know the risks, and decide to go through with the decision anyway, ready and willing to accept the consequences if things don't work out.
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Shout Out
A big Shout Out to SERU
for this to be the one of the
BEST personal development BLOG
I will continue to post a lot more
to share with you guys
thank you very much
AIESEC - my new platform?
I officially have join AIESEC, as a member in non-corporate relation .
I hope that I will learn something different that I've learned from SERU before this.
I've attend a few of their workshop, I guess its okay.
But if I'm comparing them to SERU, its different a bit because all members of AIESEC are student
but SERU has been lead by a few professional in this field.
I'm also looking forward for exchange program
to do a voluntary program
especially in environmental field
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My Story
Legacy
The reason we have to create this blog so that it will become our legacy to the future.
I did't really understand the true purpose of this blog either
So I just do it because it was a task for us
Later when I was browsing a YouTube
I found this video
Sorry...
But it really is something
because this was made from our senior
And we did't get to see them because of the time gap
They probably graduated by now
And
This is their legacy.
Honestly, I do enjoy it a bit
In conclusion
I hope this blog will become
My Legacy
To the future Student
Especially to Telecommunication Student in University Malaya
I will share my mistake
my memories
my adventure
my experience
here so it can be beneficial to all of us
in the future
the MOST inspiring video
If you had a dream, and you can't get it, after you pray and work hard as you can.
"Let it go because we don't know what God plan to do"
Week 12
What I've learn
- I actually surrounded by people who love me and I love them too... Alhamdullilah
Function do I attend?
-open house of my ex schoolmate
Lesson from reading?
-Always be clear of your objective, I also just bought new book
I haven't read it yet, but I really want to know why he doesn't kecoh-kecoh after he step down as PM of Malaysia.
Lesson from AV
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Activities?
I went to DUALISMA in UM, it nice to see other people perspective in arts.
